A couple of years ago I ran into my high school sweet heart while home for Christmas break. I have run into my former partner a few times over the years when visiting my old hometown, and our interactions were brief and polite. Feb. 6, 2018. I felt like I was watching an actor play me in a movie. My ex-wife stopped by my house (unexpectedly) to drop off some paperwork from the divorce. Not much chemistry, and weird mid-20s life stuff. The friend throws me out and I would have left except in the melee my keys fell out of my pocket. Weird. I rolled down my window and said hello, to be greeted by a sick (as in not healthy), badly-dressed, and somewhat sad X. I kinda remember reading it. I would really feel bad for the guy if he didn't just start punching you when you were trying to explain to him. Since I wasn't spending every waking hour at school or work, I became much more active and have started making my own furniture as a hobby. Turns out she has been wanting to "thank" me all this time. In one of the more awkward conversations of my life I had to call her the next day and organize a time to get my keys. I was just talking to someone about mine- I was home for Thanksgiving the year after graduating college and was out at some club type place that seemingly everyone I went to high school with was at. I come back a month later for break to find she's dating a kid who lived a few blocks from me, went to my high school (the girl and I had lived in the same town but went to different schools), looked exactly like me. This guy from the company I just left walks up the side of the truck, spots me, and gives me a friendly "how ya doin?" I had just come from a coffee date with a friend, and was reversing out of my parking space - lo and behold, there stood the bastard. He starts punching me in the head which didn't really faze me because he was kind of a pussy and I have a hard head. He just moved into the building and he's chatting me up. 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I do think that after several years after you both have moved on a simple ‘hello, how are you’ is fine, but only if you happen to run into that person unintentional. We were at a party a mutual friend was throwing. However, when this awkward time has passed, many ex-couples find that they can and would like to continue being friends if they share the same friend group. ... but I've always been polite and civil and friendly in my breakups and have tried to be the same when I run into them later on. In about the span of a month I broke up with her and took a new job (not a coincidence that they happened together).My roommate and I are moving out of our apartment one Saturday around this time and I'm in the back of a u haul packing boxes. So I have been letting her and it has been a blast. This is among the more awesome things I have read on reddit. Accidentally bumping into an ex-lover can be startling, surprising, and anxiety-producing, an all the more so if you haven't considered how to handle the situation. The practical way to deal with a narcissistic ex during a divorce is to plan for the reality that she will usually be thinking about what is good for her—and rationalize from there. A year later I graduated school with 2 degrees, got a job that pays around 90K a year, fell in love with the girl of my dreams, eloped, and bought a house. 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Turns out that he also got promoted into the position that I vacated.Then he says, "you remember Cheryl, right?" 7. .LalRrQILNjt65y-p-QlWH{fill:var(--newRedditTheme-actionIcon);height:18px;width:18px}.LalRrQILNjt65y-p-QlWH rect{stroke:var(--newRedditTheme-metaText)}._3J2-xIxxxP9ISzeLWCOUVc{height:18px}.FyLpt0kIWG1bTDWZ8HIL1{margin-top:4px}._2ntJEAiwKXBGvxrJiqxx_2,._1SqBC7PQ5dMOdF0MhPIkA8{height:24px;vertical-align:middle;width:24px}._1SqBC7PQ5dMOdF0MhPIkA8{-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;display:-ms-inline-flexbox;display:inline-flex;-ms-flex-direction:row;flex-direction:row;-ms-flex-pack:center;justify-content:center} r/AskReddit is the place to ask and answer thought-provoking questions. When I was a senior in college I was at the liquor store on a Saturday night and I ran into my ex girlfriend who I had not seen in a couple of years. "WHAT?". By using our Services or clicking I agree, you agree to our use of cookies. WHAT DID YOU MAJOR IN?" Since the breakup I had lost 15kgs, my skin is better than ever, and I'm driving in a nice car. having no idea of just how well I know her. Thing is I find my partner so boring and my ex was so much fun. Did you tell this one before? I could the wheels turning in her head as she slowly realized that all of our close friends hated her for cheating on me -- so much so that she didn't even get invited to a giant wedding attended by all of her [former] college buddies... New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. Cookies help us deliver our Services. This guy was real drunk by this time so he was not to be reasoned with. We were together for ten years and broke up over 18 years ago. Did the ex give you the "I'm sure I will regret this later but I have to do it right now" speech when you broke up? This girl and I never once had sex together in the entire time we dated. It wasn't a very serious relationship and nobody at work knew. Then, after I met my now-partner and had our son, I didn't think about running into my ex at all. If you've ever bumped into him or her — whether it … It is 1am so I am fairly sure this is a booty call so I agree. So I proceed to pummel this guy, he's bleeding, and I get pulled off by the friend. I never crossed paths with her again until about 2 weeks ago. 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Looks like you're using new Reddit on an old browser. Miss you so much, call me back when you get a chance! They tell me to wait outside and they will look for them. But a couple weeks ago my brother ended up running into her and having to interact with her a little. I didn't really care, I just thought it was really weird (creepy) that she'd decided to date a clone of me after we'd just broken up. Years 5 and 6 is when I started accepting that this would never leave me. How do you react after running into an ex after years of no contact? We had a fantastically surreal "how have you been the last few years" conversation as she continued to grind hard enough to make coffee and I got swept along with the crowd. Anyways, I ran into her last year and she's in the exact same place she was when we broke up. After I graduated high school and went to college my girlfriend and I broke up because the distance thing wasn't working. 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