I haven’t responded because I don’t want to break the NC rule. After 4 weeks I contacted him, we talked and got back together but he broke up with me. Not many guys get to see the behind-the-scenes progression a woman can go through after a breakup. It would be much easier to me to not see her almost every day. She was my 2nd long term gf. POST BU 1yr+ since march 2011. And I already regret it. She and her last ex broke up amicably and still do occasional check ins. “I broke up with my girlfriend about a week ago. Saw them today when picking up my son. Still with the guy she got with about 4 months after we broke up. More and more, being with him is looking way better than being without him. I broke up with her because I wanted to get better at myself, I tried to explain it to her, but hopeless. I’ve been NC for 2 weeks but he has been texting me every other day asking me how I am doing or for random things. It was pretty mutual, although extremely painful. "We never fought, and we both respected one another and still … Your relationship is still salvageable and it is probably just a matter of time before your ex comes back to you. I broke up with my ex and he went NC for 4 weeks. And more importantly, you shouldn’t be with someone who can’t stop seeing their ex. If you broke up on good terms , it means that nothing’s really damaged yet. I was her first bf. Sometimes people dont fit for whatever reason. I wish her the best and happiness as im over her We're trying to be friends, because as much as this break-up hurts, we didn't end on bad terms and we both very much enjoy each other's company. So you and your ex broke up and you're starting to think that maybe he or she misses you and wants you as his girlfriend or her boyfriend again. His ex is still around. 6 yrs + 1 kid together. She may just need some time to evaluate everything. Here are some signs to look out for that mean your ex still cares about you. My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago. I don't need him to want to get back together with me, but it hurts to know that my lingering feelings of intense love and care aren't reciprocated. It's not always easy to tell that your ex misses you. This other part I cannot accept. Think about it. He would call me every day and we would talk for at least an hour he would send me a good morning text every morning and good night texts every day and we texted throughout the day. I don’t care if their breakup was mutual (which it never is) — they shouldn’t be spending time together! Talking daily is a good sign that you may get her back one day. Depending on how invested a woman was with a guy – and her state of mind and health, it can be a quick progression through emotional stages like sadness, desperation, anger, and acceptance, or it can be those things over and over again with a little … Kirsch has some personal experience on the topic. 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