Two years ago (2011), I was in a relationship with my first boyfriend ever. Answer: You need to stop looking at the past through rose-tinted glasses. After six months, she told me she could "only love me as a friend." We only dated for 7 months. I still think of her. She was always sending me dirty pictures while I was at work and basically up for doing it whenever I wanted. Let him borrow my money, he later started having parties and new friends without me. We love each other but i cant get iver the hurt he caused me by cheating and habing no remorse over it.. we argue whennwe see each other, he wants me to act like it didnt happen and i cant because i feel my feelings count. I barely get to see my kids and miss them so much. One of my friends broke up with her ex and after a short while, she genuinely missed him and the break just reinforced just how much she loved him. I had a similar situation - I couldn't get over my ex for a long time, no matter what my friends told me. For years after the end of a five-year romance, one young woman described how she continued to revisit loving memories of her ex, the special ”bubble world” they had created together. Feels like it happened yesterday. She always had emotionally dependance on me, maybe she spread that to me I don’t know haha. I’m so heartbroken. 60% Upvoted. Why do i suddenly miss my ex after 2 years Why do i suddenly miss my ex after 2 years If you're still heartbroken over your ex, then you shouldn't be dating someone new. We first dated in highschool. I should have known better. Neither has he. Ten reasons you’re still obsessed with your ex - but why getting back together could be an even bigger mistake. It's just not fair to your new sweetie, and it won't help you get over your ex any more quickly. My ex husband left our family 7 years ago for my (single w/2 kids) friend. OUR 2 sons are young men now, but I find it difficult to move ahead with my life. My ex and I dated for 18 months, our relationship was not happy, but I stayed bc I love him and think it's worth it. Not been with my ex wife for about 2 and a half years. 2. We lasted 4 years but had to go our separate ways when he fell in love with another woman. We knew each other's for 4 yrs and were bff before the relationship. Five years is an extremely long time to still be thinking about your ex. What should I do? 5 comments. I still miss my ex after TWO YEARS? Breakup pain is a kind of pain you need to live through. New Reply. Viewing 12 posts - 1 through 12 (of 12 total) Author. He is more calm, shy, very handsome, tho lacks confidence, definitely an introvert, but he opened up with me very quickly and declared his love to me after 2 weeks of dating. Hello, my ex dumped me after 5 years of relationship. This girl had every red flag in the book and was really damaged. It’s a feeling that comes out of nowhere and threatens to totally throw you off track. Why You Suddenly Miss Your Ex Out Of Nowhere & What To Do About It. All of a sudden, he left me and I was devastated. I was with my ex for 2 years. My husband is very kind and understanding. But this isn’t necessarily so. It’s been two years since I left my ex-husband, aka the narcissist in my life. However, there are times that I miss my ex-boyfriend. And we would have the greatest times together. You BOTH feel like giving up, but something more powerful just won’t let you give up. She broke my heart like six or seven times that way.. After it happened for the last time in December, I decided that I didn't want to live in this misery for the rest of my life. share. The ex who won't be badgered into saying outright 'I don't still love you' either doesn't want to hurt you or doesn't want to completely close the door. We fought a lot and kicked him out so he said he got sick of the fighting. But due to COVID i am working at home and spend a lof of time by myself. I just found out today that the ex and his wife (my friend) have purchased property in a place where WE as a family would spend summers. Is it ok that I miss my ex after 2 years. And because I loved my former spouse so deeply, the pain is still unbearable when it strikes. I left him at that time but I wanted him back. In short, don't give yourself time to think about her. I remember the night she came around to and after a bottle of wine, spilled that she wanted to let him know that she missed him. Does he even miss me? She never responded. Is that ok? Posts. Since we were in high school (seniors) at this time, I had to see him everyday for the rest of the year, having fun with other girls. I keep thinking she will ask me back. People often dream about their exes for years after they break up. I recently sent her an email (email was only option cause she would not answer my call and she rarely ever texted me back) the email was telling her how I still care for her an miss her dearly. He won’t talk to me about how he feels he avoids. No contact has made me forget her. I had never been in a relationship before. I treated him like a king. i just miss him aLOT!! We don’t have any kids yet but life is still great with just me and my husband. I’ve been on both sides of the spectrum. She's been dating a guy for a year and a half now. I'm now happily with someone else, but sometimes I still miss her. Keep yourself busy, socialize more and meet new people. He acts like he don’t care about me like I don’t exist. He lied about his status which ultimately killed our trust. I felt very comfortable with my ex. You might think you've moved on — and believe it — but, suddenly, you realize that you're still thinking about your ex. Home → Forums → Relationships → 5 years on still miss my ex. It started great and then went bad quickly. My boyfriend broke up with me after 2 1/2 years, and all he said was that he hasn’t felt the spark sense Christmas, and that’s a lie. It's been over two years since the initial split from my marriage, and while I am truly happy most days now and have learned to allow grief to pass through me when it needs to, those landmines still go off. Things escalated very quickly and we loved each other immensely. I still deep down care for my ex and can't get over her. Participant. However, he broke it of because of long distance issues. After close to a year of walking along with him, there came a point when I no longer felt like we were in sync. That just ripped my heart, but at the same timei am haapy for him that he has found someone he loves and she loves him back. Tracey Cox explains why many women can't get over their former partners It’s called grief. hide. Long term, she probably would of ruined my life.. Butttt she was just so incredibly fun. I chased for 1.5 yrs and stopped. A lot of people (myself included) think this means that they are still in love with them. I have dreams that we are a family again. It can be difficult to tell if you're really over someone. I cry every single night. My ex fiancé of 6 1/2 years broke up with me 2 months ago. i am a full time student and work part time , but still think about him every second. You want to have those feelings for someone again. Divorce was 5 years ago. We all grieve differently and it takes some of us longer than others. They deserve to be with someone who treats them like they're #1, not #2. but it has been more than 2 years and what about my … “My ex was that rare girl who wanted sex more than I did. There’s nothing wrong with you. He texted me 6 months later about the money. I met a guy back in 2003 who (to me), was the most beatiful thing I had ever seen. I still miss my ex/oneitis after 2 years? At last days she started to become distant and cold, I think it was because I became kinda needy and clingy (so wierd) because I was not like this at beggining. I don’t think you’re yet able to make the right call, especially if you just googled something like, “I still love my ex” or “I still have feelings for my ex”. We were marries 26 years and i truly loved him. She dumped two years ago after dating for two years. Because the trust between us died, it made the relationship complicated because I could not trust anything he would say even if I had the evidence in hand. report. I swear it was all she thought about. It’s been a year or more and many break-ups in between, and BOTH of you are still “trying to make it work”. I can see that my ex opens my new post emails 2, 3, 4 times — either deliberating whether or not to read each new blog post, or actually reading it that many times. I've been with my Ex in "on and off" relationship for about 2 years. Unfortunately, if you are still hooked on your ex, there is no immediate cure that can remove your pain. i think about calling him, but he once told my brother that he has a gf and will be marrying her soon. Once you’re back near your ‘default’ feelings and state of mind, go ahead and proceed with the next section below, as we calculate (for real) whether you want your ex … 3. Just talks to me about the kids that’s it. A year later she called me back up and wanted me back. Sometimes if you see your ex in a dream, it means that you just want to have what you had with them. Do the right thing and break up with your current boyfriend or girlfriend. We have a daughter and I’m pregnant with our son. Question: I have not contacted my ex for five years, but some times I miss her a lot. Each time it ended up with her dumping me for another guy or just for sake of being alone. He also said he didn’t have feelings, he made up any excuse for me to leave. July 20, 2015 at 3:36 pm #80143. spider29378. with him i could be myself and i was feeling peace. Because before the break up he always wanted to hangout, go on dates. save. Same exact thing 6 months later. She has moved on and got a house and a new bf. I miss my ex, its been 2 years and i havent moves on. But i was still madly in love with him. At the time i was still having little feelings for my ex crush. Tough Love; By Jennifer Still; You broke up a while ago and you’re totally over your ex—you don’t think about them during your day to day life and you certainly don’t miss them… until you do. What’s up with that? I had a boyfriend whom I met at an international dating blog. But that doesn’t mean that breaking up with him came any easier to me. It’s been three years and two relationships later, and I still miss … This topic has 11 replies, 8 voices, and was last updated 2 years, 3 months ago by Debra. 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