You can also read my book Pisces Man Secrets for more insight. They prefer someone who is optimistic to help them when theyre forgetting the positive side of life. He does believe in true love and finding his soulmate, and he wants to find her badly. He asked for a gift back, and I got agitated; I lashed out and said hurtful things about him. He's an over-thinker. His character changed but he still cared enough to contact me every day. Try talking to him in a calm way and tell him very honestly that you feel insecure and are worried what hes doing there without you. This is often how a Pisces man will test you. Part of me says move one and let that go since he never responded. Thanks. Most recently he lost a close childhood friend and his brothers one year death anniversary is coming up so I wanted to do something to get him out the house so he wouldnt be said, all week he has been short with me and not engaging with me in text which isnt like him at all.he will reply but wont engage in conversation, when I called him out he told me how much he miss me and likes me but he doesnt want to talk right now bc hes down and he doesnt want me to think hes avoiding me but him being around me right now is pointless because hes sad. I guess he doesnt realize that he is only hurting himself by behaving this way. Had drinks and then went to dinner. I was bit confrontational that night. Sounds like hes just after sex if he made a big deal out of no oral. Why give up hope now where there is so much more for the two of you to experience together. Are you upset? Believe it or not, there are signature things that a Pisces man will do or say that will show you what is going on with him. I dont know what to do anymore. Validation isnt a bad thing and I dont think you should change who you are for anyone sweetheart. It turned into a big argument and he was mad and said I attacked his character. I feel confused that why did he then want to take things forward with me ? I really want to keep in contact with you, but if you dont want to accept a friendship for now and it will make things difficult I will also understand. I don't literally mean by mistake, anyway. I know this is long and full of fluff but I had to tell someone. (Some facts:He lives in South America and I am in North America. Try reading my book Pisces Man Secrets. He said he had to leave and asked me to come to his place. You need to tell him that you want him to treat you normal and take you out with him from time to time. Maybe this Pisces is a little too immature and doesn't understand that it will take a while for you to come around when he had the hots for you. Take note and understand. You do need to keep the communication open and be sure that youre not jumping to conclusions or doubting him when he tells you that hes alright and you should stay calm. Tell him he needs to let you know otherwise you will go work on yourself as well. So the story is we matched on tinder and we talked for a while and we met up it was great het also said he enjoyed spending time with me so we talked for like 2 more days like this is going in the right direction and then one morning he told me if I could give him some time he would appreciate it, because he wants to talk to his parents about us and because I have a son he wants to make sure he is ready for this and make his parents comfortable with it. It's for you to decide whether their reasons for ghosting you, and now their reasons for coming back, are valid ones. Ok well, he sounds like hes a very private person. There after he didnt see me for 2 months which was so weird and unusual and I tried my best to be positive and patient with him. If youve met a Pisces man who says all the right things but doesnt put the action behind it; youve got yourself a player who doesnt care about your feelings. Later that night he called teice but I was asleep. He never took me out but say he loves me. This makes them crafty liars because they intuitively know what you would believe and what you wouldnt believe. Start looking for the things that give him away. Go Ahead and Contact Him 2. We finally hung out in July, but after that day, things seemed strange. I dont ask for money for anything else at all. I sent an apology email, and I messaged him on messenger, apologizing and asking to be unblocked. If hes still playing with you then he may not yet be ready to give that up while hes playing with others. Please help me, Anna Kovatch. He wont commit but has talked to me about marriage and have another baby. Hi What I do recommend is finding you a good meditation to use on YouTube that will help you let go not to let go of him per say but to let go of unhealthy or painful things. Its weird. Our relationship last year, when everything was good, was amazing. Its weird. Give him some space and time. Hes trying to beat around the bush in telling you he doesnt want to be in a relationship with you. Ive apologized for our argument which he didnt on his part but admitted to being wrong about not telling mewho he was hanging out with. Another thing Ive observed from them is that, the less emotionally invested you are in them, the more they care. Hes about to take me on a hunting trip. He probably still carries a torch for you. Then he said, Wbu, what kind of music do you like? It was weird because he never asked me a question before especially after I asked one. Don't cry. I have worked tirelessly to figure out a way to fix all relationships with Pisces men. I am calling upon my Taurean stubborness to not reach out to him via email (he doesnt block me there so there is always a door open). Are Pisces men players? Hes not likely to change upon having a baby. Then I reached out to him, and he responded, and we got cozy again, and he began to tell me he could not wait to see me. I could give you more helpful hints on how to deal with Pisces. The last thing I want is ti hurt you, but Im struggling to commit, maybe Im not ready for a relationship and should pull myself together first. He also hates his mother working at the bakery they own. One day we stayed on the phone for 7 hours just talking. Dont take offense to his behavior right now. I dont understand why his acting weird and ignoring me. I know he suffers depression so I do make allowances for that, but also am aware he may use it as an excuse. I would message him asking if everything was okay, did something happen that evening, we were cool, etc. Im not saying all Pisces men are liars and cheaters. When I confronted abt this he said he thinks he has intimacy issues and doesnt know why he cant spend time alone with me. Pisces Ascendant - 9 years. He hugged me, and he said he will call me during the week to see how Im doing, I agreed but dont know how I feel about this. Also what was with him not seeing me for 2 months that was weird too. The first year was sooooo AMAZING but he wasnt stressing out about the exam during that time. Ill be watching for your email. Weird, I know. He came back and was awkward, I asked again if everything ok and he said the problem is you are overthinking, if I say that I feel now like going to sleep on the couch, this doesnt have to do with you and then we slept. I feel hurt by what he said and take it personally. When they ghost you and come back, read their message carefully. Well when the new yr came 2019 I would only see him once in a blue moon. Then I felt really bad. He pretends not to care about the plans you make because he is trying to push you away because he is so afraid of getting hurt. His Venus and mars is in Aquarius if that might also help. He won't leave. Sometimes when a Pisces man is with someone, he wants to keep them all to himself which is why he wouldnt want to take you out. Over the summer, as I transitioned from the eighth to ninth grade, I decided to be in the high school marching band because I play the trumpet. Your email address will not be published. I cant do this he said why not, he asked me if I want to take him out of my heart and change, he asked me to do it for the love that I have for him. I didnt think that I liked him, but I did think he was cute. He came with an excuse saying he was going through personal issues and wanted to isolated himself. Now at the time I was talking to other people and he told me he was I didnt really care cause I had a lot going on. We connected on a Wednesday, he would text and call me all day long. You might want to check out my books on Pisces Man Secrets also as it could help you even more. Then again, he could be testing you to see how you respond. I did not except the FaceTime because it seemed too soon. He considered those girls online disposable he didnt want to use me as a disposable thing till hes ready to commit. You may be getting a vibe that the Pisces man you are dating is simply leading you on, and it has left your head spinning all confused! im a leo woman and this guy has been trying to meet up with me for over half a year now. Remember your self-respect is more important than getting his approval. He has a feeling that you are not on the same pond. He was like yes, just need some fresh air. What I should do, I do video calls with me, he adore me calling him with cute names. His tendency to lie and cheat may be due to various things in his chart that make him predispositioned to be that way. 4 months into dating he said he loved me but I couldnt say it back. He should just let you go if thats what his intention is, but Pisces is always looking for his true soul mate and until he finds her. Making him jealous can trigger this reaction. Im a Cancer, and I was talking to a Pisces guy who liked me a lot; however, at the time, I wasnt able to dedicate enough time to the relationship, so things ended between us. AS far as right now, he sounds a bit like a stalker. I was devastated so I apologized and said everything I could to patch it up. Perhaps he will figure things out in his head and then better communicate with you. I think that in time hell finally give in and give it the title you want. Anyway during the time we were alone we spoke about alot! 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